By Sunmola Olowookere

Four-year old Promise (not real name) followed her mother to a church in Ijoka axis of the Akure metropolis along with her brother, a six-year old boy. Their mother had left them to their devices as she went in for a counseling session with the prophetess.

The prophetess’ houseboy gave the boy a ball, lured his sister in with sweets, and had his way with her on the floor of the kitchen. The mother discovered them following the muffled cries of her daughter and reported the rape to the woman of God. The prophetess had applied anointing oil to the young girl’s torn hymen and asked them to leave with dire warning of terrible consequences if the woman dared to report the case to the police.

As fate would have it, the young girl became infected as pus came out of the vagina and the mother rushed her to the hospital. The health workers had alerted the police when they realized that the girl was raped. The mother confessed to the police and the prophetess along with her houseboy was picked and made to face the music.

In 2021, the United Nations said there were a total of 11,200 rape cases being prosecuted, including children who were raped to death. Recently too, rate of rape incidences of minor seems to be on the rise raising concerns on how to stem the tide.

Rape cases of minors in court

28-year old, Agboola Ade, was remanded for defiling a 9-month-old baby. The Lagos State government arraigned him, on a two-count charge of defilement and causing grievous harm to the baby and the defendant pleaded guilty to the charge.

In Ondo state alone, there are over 50 cases of rape being prosecuted at the State High Court in the last three years. 

One Joseph Agbomu was sentenced to life imprisonment for defiling his neighbour’s six-year-old daughter.

 37-year-old Agbomu raped the victim at Ijebu- Owo, Owo LGA.

Justice Yemi Fasanmi, the presiding judge, said the prosecutor was able to prove the case of rape against the defendant beyond a reasonable doubt.

The defendant confessed in his extra-judicial statement to having carnal knowledge of the victim in his room without protection after taking an herbal alcoholic drink.

“The victim narrated that the convict who was her father’s neighbour, sent her on an errand to buy a pack of noodles, cooked it, and gave her some. And shortly after eating, he pushed her to his bed and inserted his penis into her vagina.”

The above two cases were just to register the fact of the increased number of defiled minors which outweighed that of mature ladies. One was a wee infant; nine-months-old and the other, a six-year-old girl. None of these victims have reached the stage of puberty. They have no feminine endowment to boast of. These cases were too numerous to be mentioned one after the other and also very disheartening.

At least, eight cases have been recorded in the media this year about men raping their daughters.

Recently, the Police in Osun State arrested a man, Timileyin for allegedly raping a teenage girl.

The victim, name withheld, was reportedly hospitalized after she started bleeding profusely owing to the injury she allegedly sustained during the sexual assault.

An 18-year-old had a harrowing experience of being lured under false pretences and subjected to a brutal assault by a predator while attempting to conduct a business transaction.

The victim was allegedly raped at knifepoint by a supposed customer while selling super glue in Ondo State.

The alleged serial rapist, Ayodele ljilakinro, was among 28 suspected criminals paraded at the Ondo State Amotekun Corps headquarters in Akure

Ijilakinro, a 55-year-old ex-convict, had recently completed a three-year jail term for a similar offence at the Olokuta Prison in Akure.

The victim said, “a man approached me, inquiring about the price of the super glue. After agreeing on a price, he claimed he did not have the money at that moment and requested my phone number, promising to call later.

“True to his word, he called the next day, asking if I had the product available. I sourced the glue from a colleague and arranged to meet him in Owena, a town in Ondo State. Upon arrival, he directed me to a secluded location, under the pretence of leading me to his camp where he claimed to have cash,” she narrated.

The victim, sensing no immediate danger, followed him on his motorcycle. However, as they veered off the main road towards a stone-breaking site near Alade, she grew uneasy. The suspect accelerated at high speed, ignoring her questions about their destination.

Sensing imminent danger, “I attempted to escape by jumping off the moving bike, injuring myself in the process. Undeterred, the assailant chased me down and subjected me to severe physical assault before forcibly raping me.

Rape, sexual harassment, vis-a-vis provocative dressing

Rape is a terrible crime to commit against anyone especially a minor. It has the tendency to mar the life of the victim for life.

Therefore, it is so irksome when some people in Nigeria hear about a case of rape, and the next retort they make is “when they do not dress decently, why will they not be raped?” Many of these critics’ psyche have been eroded by a widespread insinuation that indecent dressing is somehow linked to the crime of rape.

Speaking on the  issue, a security expert, Jerome Malomo said that in developed societies, many well-to-do elite men go to clubhouses to watch strip dancers perform.

”While performing and to the delight of their spectators, many of these artists wear suggestive clothing that leaves little to the imagination. While the more daring ones wear little or no clothing at all and do things to their viewers that would excite them and make their blood boil.

“When the men explain why they visit these outfits, they tell you that it helps them to unwind and relax after a stressful day. To many of them, watching strip dancers perform excites, exhilarates, and brings out the “boy” in them.

“Despite these “exhibitions”, rarely have we heard that the artists were raped or sexually harassed. Where then does the issue of indecent dressing come into play in issues of rape? It must be part of the instruments employed by our patriarchal society to gag women and erode their confidence.

It is pertinent to stress at this point that indecent dressing is wrong in any society and reduces the dignity of a woman. However, that should not be adduced to be part of the reasons for rape. A large part of the rape cases that were reported in Nigeria majorly involved minors, wee babies, and defenseless old women.

Reacting, a psychologist, Imole Abiodun explained that it would help our society if such erroneous, and inciting beliefs were stamped out. “Allowing such sentiments to spread is like fanning the embers of criminality. It gives some criminal elements with base tendencies to see themselves as “societal ills correctors”. Such sentiment is capable of breeding sociopaths (a person with a personality disorder manifesting itself in extreme antisocial attitudes and behaviours) and psychopaths (a person suffering from a chronic mental disorder)in our society.

“These crops of people with tendencies to sexually assault tend to interpret the minutest gesture as sexually provocative

Allure of weakness; an incitement for rapists

Some years ago at the Ondo State High Court, a case of rape and murder was brought before Justice Samuel Bola, the young man had raped an old woman on a farm path and also strangulated her to death afterward.

It was obvious that he was mentally unstable as he was cross-examined before the court. He readily confessed that he raped and killed the woman who took him to work for her on the farm.

Surprised, the judge asked him the reason behind his actions. He replied that he was provoked by the way she walked before him as her buttocks wiggled. He added that he had pushed her to the ground and raped her after overpowering her.

He concluded that he got more infuriated with her as she cried and strangulated her.

At Akure High Court before Justice Williams Olamide a few years back too, another 60-year-old woman who was a farmer was also raped brutally by her labourer which made her to sustain tears and wounds in her private part having been celibate for a long. She was raped by a man in his twenties; a man young enough to be her grandson.

Probably there would be many women farmers that would have been sexually assaulted and went unreported. This is because many women still feel embarrassed to report cases of rape.

It would be logical to conclude that many rape victims are defenseless and this formed the major part of the reasons why they were preyed upon.

Call for a change of attitude

Attaching  indecent dressing to causes of rape has become so deeply rooted in our society that it might take a concerted effort before it can be stamped out. Many spirited NGOs especially female ones are speaking out against the belief to the extent that those who share that erroneous belief are not confident of saying it publicly.

Nigerians need to understand that while no sane society would encourage its women to dress  in decently, however, it is not enough reason for them to be debased. I

Many men are now seeing the light and understand that fashion and civilization often threaten the thread of our decency and many women who are fashion-conscious love to throw caution to the winds when making bold fashion statements. Their ” statements” should not be seen as a reason to plunder and ravish them.

Four-year old Promise (not real name) followed her mother to a church in Ijoka axis of the Akure metropolis along with her brother, a six-year old boy. Their mother had left them to their devices as she went in for a counseling session with the prophetess.

The prophetess’ houseboy gave the boy a ball, lured his sister in with sweets, and had his way with her on the floor of the kitchen. The mother discovered them following the muffled cries of her daughter and reported the rape to the woman of God. The prophetess had applied anointing oil to the young girl’s torn hymen and asked them to leave with dire warning of terrible consequences if the woman dared to report the case to the police.

As fate would have it, the young girl became infected as pus came out of the vagina and the mother rushed her to the hospital. The health workers had alerted the police when they realized that the girl was raped. The mother confessed to the police and the prophetess along with her houseboy was picked and made to face the music.

In 2021, the United Nations said there were a total of 11,200 rape cases being prosecuted, including children who were raped to death. Recently too, rate of rape incidences of minor seems to be on the rise raising concerns on how to stem the tide.

Rape cases of minors in court

28-year old, Agboola Ade, was remanded for defiling a 9-month-old baby. The Lagos State government arraigned him, on a two-count charge of defilement and causing grievous harm to the baby and the defendant pleaded guilty to the charge.

In Ondo state alone, there are over 50 cases of rape being prosecuted at the State High Court in the last three years. 

One Joseph Agbomu was sentenced to life imprisonment for defiling his neighbour’s six-year-old daughter.

 37-year-old Agbomu raped the victim at Ijebu- Owo, Owo LGA in Ondo State.

Justice Yemi Fasanmi, the presiding judge, said the prosecutor was able to prove the case of rape against the defendant beyond a reasonable doubt.

The defendant confessed in his extra-judicial statement to having carnal knowledge of the victim in his room without protection after taking an herbal alcoholic drink.

“The victim narrated that the convict who was her father’s neighbour, sent her on an errand to buy a pack of noodles, cooked it, and gave her some. And shortly after eating, he pushed her to his bed and inserted his penis into her vagina.”

The above two cases were just to register the fact of the increased number of defiled minors which outweighed that of mature ladies. One was a wee infant; nine-months-old and the other, a six-year-old girl. None of these victims have reached the stage of puberty. They have no feminine endowment to boast of. These cases were too numerous to be mentioned one after the other and also very disheartening.

At least, eight cases have been recorded in the media this year about men raping their daughters.

Recently, the Police in Osun State arrested a man, Timileyin for allegedly raping a teenage girl.

The victim, name withheld, was reportedly hospitalized after she started bleeding profusely owing to the injury she allegedly sustained during the sexual assault.

An 18-year-old had a harrowing experience of being lured under false pretences and subjected to a brutal assault by a predator while attempting to conduct a business transaction.

The victim was allegedly raped at knifepoint by a supposed customer while selling super glue in Ondo State.

The alleged serial rapist, Ayodele ljilakinro, was among 28 suspected criminals paraded at the Ondo State Amotekun Corps headquarters in Akure

Ijilakinro, a 55-year-old ex-convict, had recently completed a three-year jail term for a similar offence at the Olokuta Prison in Akure.

The victim said, “a man approached me, inquiring about the price of the super glue. After agreeing on a price, he claimed he did not have the money at that moment and requested my phone number, promising to call later.

“True to his word, he called the next day, asking if I had the product available. I sourced the glue from a colleague and arranged to meet him in Owena, a town in Ondo State. Upon arrival, he directed me to a secluded location, under the pretence of leading me to his camp where he claimed to have cash,” she narrated.

The victim, sensing no immediate danger, followed him on his motorcycle. However, as they veered off the main road towards a stone-breaking site near Alade, she grew uneasy. The suspect accelerated at high speed, ignoring her questions about their destination.

Sensing imminent danger, “I attempted to escape by jumping off the moving bike, injuring myself in the process. Undeterred, the assailant chased me down and subjected me to severe physical assault before forcibly raping me.

Rape, sexual harassment, vis-a-vis provocative dressing

Rape is a terrible crime to commit against anyone especially a minor. It has the tendency to mar the life of the victim for life.

Therefore, it is so irksome when some people in Nigeria hear about a case of rape, and the next retort they make is “when they do not dress decently, why will they not be raped?” Many of these critics’ psyche have been eroded by a widespread insinuation that indecent dressing is somehow linked to the crime of rape.

Speaking on the  issue, a security expert, Jerome Malomo said that in developed societies, many well-to-do elite men go to clubhouses to watch strip dancers perform.

”While performing and to the delight of their spectators, many of these artists wear suggestive clothing that leaves little to the imagination. While the more daring ones wear little or no clothing at all and do things to their viewers that would excite them and make their blood boil.

“When the men explain why they visit these outfits, they tell you that it helps them to unwind and relax after a stressful day. To many of them, watching strip dancers perform excites, exhilarates, and brings out the “boy” in them.

“Despite these “exhibitions”, rarely have we heard that the artists were raped or sexually harassed. Where then does the issue of indecent dressing come into play in issues of rape? It must be part of the instruments employed by our patriarchal society to gag women and erode their confidence.

It is pertinent to stress at this point that indecent dressing is wrong in any society and reduces the dignity of a woman. However, that should not be adduced to be part of the reasons for rape. A large part of the rape cases that were reported in Nigeria majorly involved minors, wee babies, and defenseless old women.

Reacting, a psychologist, Imole Abiodun explained that it would help our society if such erroneous, and inciting beliefs were stamped out. “Allowing such sentiments to spread is like fanning the embers of criminality. It gives some criminal elements with base tendencies to see themselves as “societal ills correctors”. Such sentiment is capable of breeding sociopaths (a person with a personality disorder manifesting itself in extreme antisocial attitudes and behaviours) and psychopaths (a person suffering from a chronic mental disorder)in our society.

“These crops of people with tendencies to sexually assault tend to interpret the minutest gesture as sexually provocative

Allure of weakness; an incitement for rapists

Some years ago at the Ondo State High Court, a case of rape and murder was brought before Justice Samuel Bola, the young man had raped an old woman on a farm path and also strangulated her to death afterward.

It was obvious that he was mentally unstable as he was cross-examined before the court. He readily confessed that he raped and killed the woman who took him to work for her on the farm.

Surprised, the judge asked him the reason behind his actions. He replied that he was provoked by the way she walked before him as her buttocks wiggled. He added that he had pushed her to the ground and raped her after overpowering her.

He concluded that he got more infuriated with her as she cried and strangulated her.

At Akure High Court before Justice Williams Olamide a few years back too, another 60-year-old woman who was a farmer was also raped brutally by her labourer which made her to sustain tears and wounds in her private part having been celibate for a long. She was raped by a man in his twenties; a man young enough to be her grandson.

Probably there would be many women farmers that would have been sexually assaulted and went unreported. This is because many women still feel embarrassed to report cases of rape.

It would be logical to conclude that many rape victims are defenseless and this formed the major part of the reasons why they were preyed upon.

Call for a change of attitude

Attaching  indecent dressing to causes of rape has become so deeply rooted in our society that it might take a concerted effort before it can be stamped out. Many spirited NGOs especially female ones are speaking out against the belief to the extent that those who share that erroneous belief are not confident of saying it publicly.

Nigerians need to understand that while no sane society would encourage its women to dress  in decently, however, it is not enough reason for them to be debased. I

Many men are now seeing the light and understand that fashion and civilization often threaten the thread of our decency and many women who are fashion-conscious love to throw caution to the winds when making bold fashion statements. Their ” statements” should not be seen as a reason to plunder and ravish them.