By Josephine Oguntoyinbo

As much as I do not like to sound religious or sentimental when discussing relationship on Feminineline , (and why not),I cannot take an indifferent stand point on the issue I am about to discuss here.
It is about marriage which is the most sacred and technical institution that women could ever find themselves involved in.
Marriage is a Godly and deeply religious institution regardless of whatever anyone says, feels or thinks.
Marriage was instituted by God and should be seen and treated as such. The earlier those going into marriage get this understanding, the better.
If anyone thinks that he can use human machinations to handle marital issues, then such should be prepared for an imminent collapse of the union and the persons involved. Marriage is fundamentally a divine institution, it is divine in purpose, origin and regulation.
Incidentally, civilisation and domestic violence is taking it toll in every aspect of human living. Ladies wants to be single parents. Look for a bedmate that can assist in the copulation process, pregnancy comes and then agreement is reached on how to raise the child.
This is so because partners end up frustrated and the union end abruptly because they are not founded on the originator of the marriage institution.
It is also noteworthy that it is not everyone who is single today that do not wish to be married. Environmental, financial, and spiritual factors all account for why many women have remained single.
Things ladies hear about marriage and domestic violence today are so frightening and uncomfortable to think about as several marriages end in divorce even in the first year.
There are cases of woman who became miserable soon after they got married. They deteriorate mentally, emanciate physically and become a shadow of their former self. They look so pitiable that old friends and colleagues who see them are left to battle with so many unresolved puzzles due to battering , molestation , cheating , pretence, communication gap, and so on.
Sometimes, the psychological pressure of having to live with a wrong partner becomes so intense.
Meanwhile, it is shameful to always change a spouse, as it undermine the mutual respect that forms the basis of love, hence becomes difficult to love when one feels she could be mistreated.
To this end, many ladies do not want to marry at all because many men are far from societal norms, therefore , they are not ready to marry a man without a good character and conscience.
The best thing is to prayerfully select one’s partner.It cannot be negotiated as marriage has a way of elongating, as well as cutting short a life ,and that is why it should be treated as a sensitive issue that it really is.
Therefore, getting married to the right person is very crucial to the fulfillment of one’s destiny.