Associate Pastor of The Fountain of Life Church, Toluwani Odukoya, says her separation from her husband hit her like death but ultimately reshaped her life’s journey.
In an interview with Truthtable, the 40-year-old pastor explained that the painful experience, though beyond her control, taught her profound lessons, stressing that separation should not always be seen as failure or blame.
“I’ll say I’m separated. Most of you don’t know I’m separated and that’s actually defined or has shaped my life. It was circumstances beyond my control,” she said.
She praised her ex-husband, calling him a “great man,” and believes that their marriage wasn’t ordained by God, making it difficult to last.
“My ex-husband is a great man… but if God doesn’t ordain you guys to be together and you force-fit yourselves, the likelihood of staying together is very low,” she explained.
She stated the past few years have been particularly trying for her, marked by a series of family tragedies.
She lost her stepmother, her father’s twin sister, and eventually, her father, Senior Pastor Taiwo Odukoya, who passed away on August 7, 2023.
Through her struggles, Toluwani said she has leaned heavily on her faith and found solace in her family’s support.
“When the call came, I told God, ‘You know all the baggage I’m trying to navigate. But if You call me to serve, then maybe you’ve put something in me.’ I just decided to keep my eyes on Jesus,” she recounted.
Support from her family, particularly her late father and her siblings, played a pivotal role in helping her stay grounded during those challenging years.
“My dad fought for me. My family encouraged me. That embrace added to my self-esteem and self-worth,” she said.
The Odukoya family has been at the heart of The Fountain of Life Church since its founding.
After the passing of Pastor Taiwo Odukoya in the United States, his son, Jimmy Odukoya, succeeded him as the Senior Pastor, serving alongside Toluwani in leadership.My marriage collapse reshaped my destiny – Fountain of Life pastor, Odukoya
Associate Pastor of The Fountain of Life Church, Toluwani Odukoya, says her separation from her husband hit her like death but ultimately reshaped her life’s journey.
In an interview with Truthtable, the 40-year-old pastor explained that the painful experience, though beyond her control, taught her profound lessons, stressing that separation should not always be seen as failure or blame.
“I’ll say I’m separated. Most of you don’t know I’m separated and that’s actually defined or has shaped my life. It was circumstances beyond my control,” she said.
She praised her ex-husband, calling him a “great man,” and believes that their marriage wasn’t ordained by God, making it difficult to last.
“My ex-husband is a great man… but if God doesn’t ordain you guys to be together and you force-fit yourselves, the likelihood of staying together is very low,” she explained.
She stated the past few years have been particularly trying for her, marked by a series of family tragedies.
She lost her stepmother, her father’s twin sister, and eventually, her father, Senior Pastor Taiwo Odukoya, who passed away on August 7, 2023.
Through her struggles, Toluwani said she has leaned heavily on her faith and found solace in her family’s support.
“When the call came, I told God, ‘You know all the baggage I’m trying to navigate. But if You call me to serve, then maybe you’ve put something in me.’ I just decided to keep my eyes on Jesus,” she recounted.
Support from her family, particularly her late father and her siblings, played a pivotal role in helping her stay grounded during those challenging years.
“My dad fought for me. My family encouraged me. That embrace added to my self-esteem and self-worth,” she said.
The Odukoya family has been at the heart of The Fountain of Life Church since its founding.
After the passing of Pastor Taiwo Odukoya in the United States, his son, Jimmy Odukoya, succeeded him as the Senior Pastor, serving alongside Toluwani in leadership.